Is your emotional attachment to money holding you back?

The way you attach value to money is a far more complex process than you might realise. Our brains are clever little engines, attributing different emotional values to the same amount of money, depending on how important it is to us.

Just like companies have different budgets for different departments, our human minds also separate our funds into different ‘accounts’ for lots of different things – car money, dinner money, rent money etc.

Yet, $100 is $100. The value of that $100 doesn’t change, regardless of how you feel about it or the emotional value you attribute to it.

Mental accounting

Imagine you’re walking down the street and you find a $50 note on the ground. You’re excited – $50! You’re also saving up for a new car. You know this money would help towards getting your new car, but instead you take your $50 and spend it on a dinner out with your friends. You justify your actions by telling yourself that this money isn’t ‘car money’ anyway, so it’s ok to treat yourself to something special. Sound familiar?!

Mental accounting is a helpful way for our minds to process large amount of data. However, our minds let us down because they assign value to money subjectively, despite money having a consistent, objective value.

This means that despite $1 being equal to $1, our minds might assign a different value to that $1, depending on how we earned it, how we intend to use it, and how it makes us feel.

Money is money

This occurs because our minds dismiss one of the key benefits of money: the value of money is consistent with other units of the same currency. In other words, your $5 is exactly the same as mine. But we each view that $5 differently, depending on the value we’ve allocated to it in our mind.

It’s a bit like putting our money in different bank accounts that we apply different rules to. Windfall gains from investments, bonuses, tax refunds, or finding money on the street, are especially powerful. We’re much more likely to spend windfall gains than money earned from our regular income.

We’re also much more likely to spend windfall money on luxury goods. Even though the money is exactly the same, the fact we acquired it in a special way makes us think we can spend it in a special way too.

If this sounds like you, don’t worry – you’re not alone! Even seasoned investors can be susceptible to this bias, such as when they view windfall gains differently and allocate that money to higher risk investments. By doing this, they are making decisions on each mental account separately, rather than viewing the portfolio return as a whole.

Sunk costs

On the other hand, sunk costs – money that has already been spent and cannot be recovered – continue to affect our decision making because it’s still stuck in one of our mental accounts.

Say you’ve spent $150 to go and see a rugby match at the stadium. On the day the weather is awful, it’s raining, windy, cold and you woke up in the morning feeling a bit sick. To be honest, you’d prefer to stay home and watch the game on TV. But you feel compelled to go to the game, because to not do so would be a waste of $150.

Even though the money is spent, and the sunk cost should not influence your future decisions, you decide to go to the game because you opened a mental account in your mind after you bought the ticket and to not go would mean you’d have to close the account at a loss – and that can be too painful to bear.

This is obviously not logical behaviour! Your money has been spent and cannot be refunded. The only thing that should influence your decision are the costs and benefits incurred today.

Money has no labels

Your money doesn’t come with any labels attached to it. The $5 you plan to use for the bus could also be used to buy a cookie, or something else entirely. But our minds often label money based on its intended use.

One example is gift cards. When people receive gift cards from a specific retailer, they are much more likely to spend it on something highly representative from that brand, or on a more expensive item than originally intended.

So, if money doesn’t have labels and is interchangeable, why would anyone be willing to pay more than twice the price for an item in one location over another?

Often, it comes down to the environment and situation. Our mind’s subjective view of money’s value is highly influenced by our environment.

You’re more likely to pay a higher price for a bottle of soft drink from a fancy bar, than buying the same drink from a corner shop. But it doesn’t matter where you consume the drink, you’ll still pay more for it if you feel the environment or situation warrants the additional cost.

This suggests that our definition of a reasonable price is very flexible and can vary widely depending on the situation.

What can you do?

Understanding the limitation of your own mental accounting and the values you attribute to money will help you when setting up your budget and savings goals. The key thing is to understand that all money is equal. Once you can do that, you’ll be much more likely to make more rational, less emotionally driven decisions with your money.

Here’s 4 simple ways to start viewing money objectively:

1. Stop attributing emotional values to different pockets of money. Look at your finances as holistically as possible. It might be easy to have a mental account for ‘coffee’ but it doesn’t mean you shouldn’t stop and assess critically whether you should be spending that amount on coffee or whether you are paying a reasonable price for them.
2. Have a plan for windfall gains. Know what you’re going to do with bonuses, tax refunds, birthday money and any unexpected financial gains before you get it. Agree with yourself that you will save a set percentage of it and treat yourself with the remainder.
3. Don’t let sunk costs affect your decisions. Sunk costs are unrecoverable and should not affect your decisions today or in the future. Just because you spent $5,000 last year keeping your old car on the road does not necessarily mean it is worth spending another $3,000 today because it has a new fault.
4. Stop keeping everything in your mind. Your mind can do a lot of great things but it’s not very objective when it comes to money! Use a spreadsheet or budgeting tool to create your budget.

Disclaimer: This article has been prepared for the purpose of providing general information, without taking into consideration any particular objectives, financial situation or needs. Any opinions contained in it are held by the author as at the report date and are subject to change without notice.